Monday, March 23, 2015

Blog Post 13- "The American Dream"


I would describe the “American Dream” as a life of happiness and comfort as many people seek in the United States. To me, this is having a family of two kids, about two years apart, and a dog. The mother is a stay-at-home, mini-van driving, picture-taking loving mom, while the dad has a good job that is able to provide for his family, but then also has time to play sports with his kids on the weekends. The oldest child is a boy who protects and looks after his younger sister. They both play sports and keep up good grades. Every Friday, the family eats out to reflect on their week, to talk as a family, and spend time together.

To me, all of this is wealth. While having enough money to support oneself and their family is important, wealth is being happy together and spending time together as a family. Money is great to have, but happiness and love is what I believe is the true meaning of “being wealthy”. “You aren't wealthy until you have something money can't buy” (Garth Brooks).

American’s tend to believe that by living in the US, one is already wealthy. Some American’s are selfish when it comes to this and are also very stereotypical as they believe that The United States provides numerous opportunities for everyone to have a lot of money and to take advantage of. As this is partially true when comparing to other countries, the majority of people in the US are not extremely wealthy. Similarly, American’s tend to view poverty as small starving villages in Africa, when in reality poverty is a problem in the United States too.

I find myself falling into the stereotypes I listed above. I do view America as having a huge amount of opportunities and find myself asking why everyone doesn’t take advantage of the amazing breaks that the US offers. When I think of poverty I also think of small villages in other countries and it is still hard for me to grasp how common poverty is in America. While money is a very important aspect of everyone’s lives, happiness and love should always come first.